Frequently Asked Questions

I’ll start with an extensive questionnaire, which will help us dive into the planning process with ease. The questions will get you thinking about the meaning of your union, and help isolate the elements you’d like to include in your ceremony. These questions will provide me with insight into your partnership, which I will weave into your script.

I am an ordained a minister of the Universal Life Church, certified in Relational Life Therapy (couples focused), certified in Gestalt Therapy and certified as a teacher of MatrixWorks, a model of leadership that focuses on group-dynamics.

I am a facilitator of relationships, both as a couples coach and in supporting groups to create happier and healthier communities and teams. I hold a Master's degree in Resilient Leadership from Naropa University.

Also, I spent my younger years working in the theater -  there’s no doubt that my experience in stage managing and performing comes into play while officiating.

As a Wedding Ceremony Officiant in Colorado, I design and lead deeply personal, heartfelt ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique story. From the initial discovery questionnaire to the final script and ceremony day, I ensure every detail feels meaningful, authentic, and true to who you are. I am legally authorized to perform weddings throughout most of the U.S.

Through Couples Coaching, I help individuals and partners build healthier, more fulfilling relationships using Relational Life Therapy and Gestalt practices. My approach blends mindfulness, somatic awareness, and relational skill-building to deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and foster emotional growth. Sessions are available virtually or in person in South Boulder, Colorado.

I can also help if you plan to ask a loved one to officiate your wedding. I’ll provide the same professional ceremony design and support, then personally train your chosen officiant so they feel confident and prepared to lead your ceremony. You get a thoughtfully designed ceremony while someone meaningful to you gets to be the one who marries you.

Yes, I provide personalized pre-marital coaching sessions designed to help couples understand each other better, improve communication, and build a strong foundation for marriage.

I offer two packages to serve a variety of budgets & needs. 

For complete details on wedding officiant prices, click here.

Yes! I offer wedding officiant services and couples coaching on a sliding scale, making them accessible for couples with different budgets. You can reach out directly at Sarah@LeadYourLoveLife.com to discuss rates.

Yes, of course! I can help if you plan to ask a loved one to officiate your wedding. I’ll provide the same professional ceremony design and support, then personally train your chosen officiant so they feel confident and prepared to lead your ceremony. You get a thoughtfully designed ceremony while someone meaningful to you gets to be the one who marries you.

I have always been deeply passionate about love. I believe romantic partnership has the potential for growth that no other bond can offer. It's a chance to know our own divinity through the trials and glories of an intimate relationship. I am lit up by fostering healthier and happier relationships.

Wedding officiating came into view for me in 2016. In a very short period, two couples asked me to officiate their weddings. Shortly thereafter, as I was leading a week-long couples canoe trip down Labyrinth Canyon in Utah, one of the couples became engaged! Both were in their late 50s, neither had been married before, but something happened on that river which inspired them to advance their partnership to the next level. 

A few days later, they asked me to marry them, then and there, in the great beauty of the canyon.  After 3 weddings back-to-back that year, I realized this was something that blended my passion, talent, and desire to serve the world.

I embrace and welcome a diverse array of partnerships. I find that those who are most drawn to me as an officiant or coach are people who value good communication. They tend to be interested in having a hand in designing their ceremony and want it to be personal to them and filled with love. They value building a successful and satisfying partnership. 

They're the kind of people who know that as special as their wedding day is, it should not be THE BEST day of their lives - but the enchanting beginning to many years of blissful partnership.

Learn more about my beliefs on marriage in this blog.

I fall in love with every couple I get the pleasure of working with. I get to know their relationship's ins and outs. I learn about the strengths their community sees in them as a couple. I weave these pieces together into a story that becomes part of their ceremony script. When working this closely with people on something that matters so much, it's impossible for me not to fall in love.

Choose a wedding ceremony officiant who will take the time to get to know you. The personal touch will make your ceremony memorable - which is what you want on your wedding day!  

You should also be sure that your marriage officiant is legally able to marry you to make it official in your state. A good officiant will offer to call the county for you, triple-check on your license details, and be sure you know exactly what steps to take to make your marriage legal. 

Most importantly, work with someone who makes you feel at ease and comfortable. Someone you get along with naturally. Someone who cares deeply about the quality and integrity of their work. Someone who can hear your vision for your ceremony and support you in creating it!

• Will you need a ceremony rehearsal? Will you want your officiant to run it?

• What's the tone of your ideal ceremony? 

• What have you seen in other wedding ceremonies that you liked or did not like?

• How do you want to remember your ceremony? How would you like your guests to remember your wedding ceremony?

• Are there traditions or rituals you’d like to include or leave out?

• What's most important to you about the officiant you hire?